Betsy Ross
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And god help you if your kids are athletes - only if you have kids in club sports here do you have the faintest idea what I'm talking about. I could go on and on.
It sounds like Mike and Craig have similar situations with multiple kids and kids in sports. My sister's kids in California are also in sports and it was insane what she tells me she spends on sports and extracurricular activities. It boggles my mind. It is great that you can provide that to your kids but not sure how the typical family gets by.Very true @CraigM. I think some of these people have lost total reality of how expensive life is in the USA. I don't think many of them have really lived or maybe even visited for long periods of time. Argentina is still extremely cheap overall for cost of living. Rents are dirt cheap (heading up but still very low). Obviously they are higher in Buenos Aires vs. other smaller towns.
But you nailed it on HIGH COST of living in the USA. We sent our kids to public schools because we moved to an area with the best school. But my friends are paying $30,000 to $50,000 per year per child to send to private schools. I opted to pay more for my house and pay property taxes vs. that bigger tuition amounts but many people pay both!
My health insurance premium for my family of 5 is about $35,000. Not the best program but not the worst either. Just a decent PPO plan. Since I own my own company I have to pay 100% of that. That's not even counting the co-pays as @CraigM nailed. Spot on target! Add in at least $10k on co-pays each year. And mine doesn't include dental insurance so we also pay out of pocket on that. (You don't want to know the cost of 3 kids having braces all at the same time!).
My property taxes luckily aren't too bad as they can only raise the value 2% a year. Fortunately I purchased when prices were lower but values tripled since I bought it 14 years ago but the property tax has only gone up 2% a year. But even at that rate you're talking about $20,000 per year in property taxes even after fully owning my house and it being paid off. My insurance bill they said will go up 250% as my company is leaving California.
And just taking Craig's example. All 3 of my kids are in extracurricular activities. My daughter is a Varsity tennis player since she was a freshman. Tennis lessons are $100 USD per hour. And she takes several per week. Same as my other 2 kids. Add on all the other stuff like piano lessons, drawing classes, etc, etc. Life in the USA is expensive! You have to be making a fortune and even then, it goes pretty quickly!
Many people on the forum that haven't lived in the USA before would be surprised. And many that have before and haven't been back would be surprised at the inflated cost of everything.
My sister in Santa Barbara pays $35,000 per year just in property taxes alone. I think her insurance bill and her HOA makes it around the same as that. It's no wonder more and more people are not having kids. Anyway. I don't just think it's expensive in the US but all around the world relative to salaries, cost of kids is too much.