Hi
@travelpro,
You are getting some good advice on this thread. It's great that you have experience living in other Latin American countries. I am not sure how old your other children are but if they are very young and won't have school then you would save some money but the advice is correct about private schooling.
I have 3 children, 2 of which were born in Buenos Aires. We moved from Buenos Aires back to the USA once my oldest was 3 years old as I didn't want to raise them in Buenos Aires. I'm not sure how long your potential work assignment is. I happen to love Buenos Aires and could have made it work raising them in BA.
You have to be careful and things like "comfortable" or "good life" are all subjective terms. It can mean different things to different people. Obviously the more "comfortable" life you live the more it's going to cost. Prices have jumped up since the middle of 2023 when your friend was living there. Things like education, healthcare, restaurants, insurance have all jumped up considerably. Things like utilities are still much cheaper than the USA or even Mexico when you calculate cost per kWh. By that standard they are still "cheap" but you will hear many locals complaining because they were accustomed to super low subsidized pricing so when you hear them say it is expensive it's relative. Expensive means different things to different people.
You can spend a reasonable amount or you can spend a LOT of money in BA. For what you're asking for a larger 4 bedroom property you will pay quite a bit of money to rent a furnished property. I have a lot of friends in Buenos Aires that have 3 or 4 bedroom properties and just their HOA bill alone now is $800 to $900 USD per month. Some of these apartments are the only one on the floor or only 2 units in the floor so their share of expenses are higher. I don't think you will spend less than $2,000 to $2,500 USD per month or more on a property if it's in a desirable area and it's well furnished.
Medical expenses will vastly vary just depending on which company and plan but it is much higher than when your friend was here. To give you an example I'm paying over $525 USD per month for an employee with 1 child. And that is on a mid-level OSDE 310 plan. Not the best and not the worst. A higher plan and I think the other people giving you estimates are correct.
I dine out a lot and you can spend an absolute fortune on that in Buenos Aires. The advice to get a full-time maid or one that comes daily and will cook and clean is a good idea. Not always easy to find that right now but that would make the most sense from cost perspective.
I think the estimates are all reasonable. I think you would need a minimum of at least $7,000 USD per month and obviously it could be much higher depending on what activities you do. Buenos Aires is not nearly as affordable as it was before. And keep in mind inflation is still a factor. Monthly inflation is at least 3% a month and certain things you will hear about prices jumping up more than that.
Don't let people scare you though. You can get by for the most part cheaper than you can live in the USA but it will depend on what kind of lifestyle you lived. I don't think I could get by in BA for less than $10k a month with 3 kids going to private schools but that is a fraction of what we spend in the USA so things are relative.
I've posted this before on other posts about budgeting and cost of living.
In my experience, people always underestimate what they will spend vs. overestimate. Everyone should be making a very detailed spreadsheet of All their expenses that they spend in their home country before they make a move. You should know your costs of what you're spending now. I know exactly what I'm spending each month. But before you move add in all your expenses. Here is my list below. You may have others to add to this.
-Rent (if you don't own your property)
- Property taxes if you own
-Phone (Land line and Cell phone) for each member of your family that will have a phone
- Utilities (gas, water, electricity, cable, internet, etc)
- HOA fees/expensas each month
- Maintenance and repairs (if you own a property)
- Car payments
- Car insurance
- Auto Fuel each month for each car
- Registration fees for your car each year
- Maintenance on your car to include car washes and oil changes
-Parking (various times when you're out and about plus if you don't have a garage in your apartment and have to rent one) Parking has really jumped up in Buenos Aires over the past 2 years.
- Home/rental insurance for your property
- Life insurance
- Health insurance premiums
- Dental insurance premiums
- Medical/Dental expenses (what insurance won't cover)
- Prescription medications
- School expenses for kids if applicable (tuition, stuff for school, ballet classes, etc)
- Babysitter expenses
- Annual fee for Credit Cards
- Clothes for kids and yourself
- Toys for kids
- Dry Cleaning and laundry expenses
- Health club / gym
- Taxi/Uber fares which are inevitable.
- Beauty (hair salon for hair cuts, color, nails, make up, massages, etc)
- Extracurricular activities dues/fees
- Entertainment (movies, theatre, plays, Zoo, concerts, sporting events, etc --)
- Magazine/newspaper/Ipad app subscriptions
- Dining out at restaurants
- Grocery budget
- Retirement savings contributions
- Kids college fund savings contributions
- Charity/donations
- Travel / vacation expenses
- Federal/State/local income taxes
- Any revolving debt payments you might have
- Bad habit type stuff (alcohol, smoking, etc)
- Emergency savings fund for any major health issues
- Non reimbursed office/work expenses and supplies
One final thing I will say is moving with kids can be a stressful situation not only for the kids but also adults. I'm not sure if your husband works from home or if he works remote, etc. But doing this with kids is always much more difficult situation vs. moving alone or with just adults. Moving international is a stressful situation as I'm sure you already know if you've moved to Mexico City and São Paulo. I'm not sure if you did that when you had kids or not but needless to say it is a vastly different experience. The added stress of schooling and language barriers can be stressful.
I think Buenos Aires is a fabulous city. I know many friends and clients that have moved here and were successful but there were still some growing pains. I'm not sure if you already visited Buenos Aires before? What I would suggest before you even think about it is come and visit the city and some of the schools. Go to your office and make that commute that you'd be making if you were to live outside. Meet with a few realtors and ask your company if they would help with finding a place. That is not always an easy process. That process in and of itself can be very stressful. Renting here isn't as easy as most places around the world.
But come here and see in detail and give yourself a glimpse of what your life would look like here before making the move with the family.