Love Advice - Fell in love with an escort in Buenos Aires - Is it real love?

[Gus UK]

Just read this post. Great for you. I hope the relationship is still going strong.

 

[fool in love]

Just read this post. Great for you. I hope the relationship is still going strong.

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

 

[Jeep]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

Damn! Sorry to hear it.

 

[GlasgowJohn]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

Thats very sad news. Hope you will recover quickly and get back to your normal life!

 

[Digital Nomad]

Thats very sad news. Hope you will recover quickly and get back to your normal life!

I agree the key is to just move on. Sorry that happened to you.

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

It happens to the best of them. I have friends in the States that dated strippers and same type of thing. I also have friends here in Latin America and same story. That is always bad news meeting females that way.

 

[fool in love]

Every now and then I go through a week-long episode of bad insomnia. I'm in the middle of one now and just finished reading the entire thread. I don't buy your story but, shame on you and only you if it were true.

I can assure you my story is true. I already said shame on me but you are not making me feel any better. I just got my heart torn in pieces and you are punching a guy while he is down. Thanks guys for being nice about it. It hurts but I will move on. My ex is trying to explain it but I have photo proof from the investigator.

 

[Vince]

I can assure you my story is true. I already said shame on me but you are not making me feel any better. I just got my heart torn in pieces and you are punching a guy while he is down. Thanks guys for being nice about it. It hurts but I will move on. My ex is trying to explain it but I have photo proof from the investigator.

Sorry to hear about this. Just learn from it and move on. I'm sure she will regret it. But unfortunately, I think many females here just don't want to settle down. My wife has some friends who never got married and probably never will. Porteñas are a different breed vs. other Latinas. Hang in there pal.

 

[Jordan]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

Brutal bro. It's ok to have fun but never get serious meeting girls like this. I have made that mistake a time or two.

 

[earlyretirement]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

@fool in love,

Sorry this didn't work out. Look at it positively and at least you found out now fairly quickly and didn't get too serious. You were probably smart to hire an investigator but typically the fact that you even had to do that is a sign that you knew it was too good to be true. I agree as @GlasgowJohn, and just move on as quick as you can from this.

 

[Larry]

Don't feel bad @fool in love! At least you found out now vs. later if you were to get more serious with her.

Every now and then I go through a week-long episode of bad insomnia. I'm in the middle of one now and just finished reading the entire thread. I don't buy your story but, shame on you and only you if it were true.

Actually @Sunny this is more common than you think. I have friends in Brazil that met the same way. Unfotunately usually never a happy ending.

 

[Avocado]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

I dont want to say I told you so but I told you this kind of thing never work out. Now maybe you will meet a respectable female that respect herself.

 

[Swowbird]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

Everything happens for a reason. I told you to look at the situation as if someone came to you to give an opinion. You probably did that and hence why you hired a private detective. That was a smart decision. Just move on from this. She will probably do all she can to get you to forgive her.

Remember the phrase. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

 

[Wally]

Hang on there pal. This too shall pass. If I fell in love with every girl I saw.....

 

[GlasgowJohn]

Hang on there pal. This too shall pass. If I fell in love with every girl I saw.....

And what about the girls you have spoken to in call centers with tremendous sexy accents.

 

[Wally]

And what about the girls you have spoken to in call centers with tremendous sexy accents.

Yes. Great minds think alike.

 

[Uncle Wong]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

Darn I was rooting for you two. But look at it this way. The same thing could happen no matter what her past might have been. About 50% of relationships end up in divorce and many times because of cheating. So maybe don't be too hard on her and also too hard on yourself.

Every now and then I go through a week-long episode of bad insomnia. I'm in the middle of one now and just finished reading the entire thread. I don't buy your story but, shame on you and only you if it were true.

Don't be too hard on him Sunny. You sound like one of the few females commenting on this but this sort of thing happens more than you would think. Especially for males here in Latin America. I have met up with many males in my travels in Brazil, Colombia, Peru, Paraguay and happens more often then you would think.

 

[FuturoBA]

Darn I was rooting for you two. But look at it this way. The same thing could happen no matter what her past might have been. About 50% of relationships end up in divorce and many times because of cheating. So maybe don't be too hard on her and also too hard on yourself.


Don't be too hard on him Sunny. You sound like one of the few females commenting on this but this sort of thing happens more than you would think. Especially for males here in Latin America. I have met up with many males in my travels in Brazil, Colombia, Peru, Paraguay and happens more often then you would think.

Agree that whether she was an escort or not, it still could happen. I think you fell for her too fast, you didn't see some of the red flags earlier. Emotions, especially strong ones tend to blind us, and love can be one of the strongest. Be grateful you didn't buy that apartment for her and that you're getting out now vs how much pain later it would have been. Nothing we say will relieve the pain, but time will make it better. And if you're still interested in BA, it has the most therapists per capita to talk to.

Heart breaks happen to the best of us. Good luck on your recovery.

 

[Spend Thrift]

I can assure you my story is true. I already said shame on me but you are not making me feel any better. I just got my heart torn in pieces and you are punching a guy while he is down. Thanks guys for being nice about it. It hurts but I will move on. My ex is trying to explain it but I have photo proof from the investigator.

Sorry this happened to you but some of us tried to warn you months ago this wouldn't have a happy ending.

 

[Starfish]

Agree that whether she was an escort or not, it still could happen. I think you fell for her too fast, you didn't see some of the red flags earlier. Emotions, especially strong ones tend to blind us, and love can be one of the strongest. Be grateful you didn't buy that apartment for her and that you're getting out now vs how much pain later it would have been. Nothing we say will relieve the pain, but time will make it better. And if you're still interested in BA, it has the most therapists per capita to talk to.

Heart breaks happen to the best of us. Good luck on your recovery.

Tough break @fool in love. But agree with the other gentlemen. I have been cheated on a few times and trust me her profession had nothing to do with it. They were just rotten human beings. Sounds like she lost a really good thing with you. Good luck.

 

[Jenn]

Never trust an escort. Things were going very good but I was thinking of getting more serious so I hired an investigator to follow my girlfriend around and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. I broke it off with her. I was a fool to think it could work out. Once a hooker always a hooker. Shame on her and shame on me too.

I don't know how I missed this thread! Just read all the posts! This is crazy! You are an attorney and should know better. If someone came to you asking for advice you would have definitely told them not to try this. I'm sorry it didn't work out but you should have known! I would love to know the back story how and why you hired a private detective!