I just got back from a few days in NYC and I totally agree. It's gone down hill over the years since COVID and then with this tremendous increase of illegals and migrants. I go to NYC every year and honestly probably won't go back for a while. We have family there so that is why we visit but I kid you not, within 5 minutes of arriving at Penn Station from Boston a Latino male tried to rob my wallet. Fortunately I keep it in the front of my pants. He also bumped into my wife and I think he ended up robbing another woman as we saw her screaming.
There is a constant smell of pot almost anywhere you go. I live in California where marijuana is legal too but I haven't experienced this at all like what it was in NYC. Almost anywhere we went even on the Upper East side we had a constant smell of pot in the air. People sleeping in the subways, all on the steps walking up/down. Just horrible.
We went ice skating at Bryant Park and it was hilarious because literally almost everyone was Latinos. They were even playing Latino music the entire time. Hopefully things will improve now that they will probably end the Santuary City programs. Mayor Adams seems like he finally came to his sense.
Sorry to hear about your father
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